Dutch · Pronunciation Guide
HOW-duh fahn — the ou is the diphthong of "house," and the phrase means "to love" only when "van" is attached.
The verb carries the beat and "van" is a weightless tail: HOU-den-van. In a real sentence the preposition often ends up far from the verb, and it stays unstressed wherever it lands — its job is grammatical, not rhythmic.
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Ik hou van jou.
I love you.
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"Ik hou van jou" uses the shortened stem "hou" (the -d is routinely dropped in the first person) and puts the emphatic pronoun "jou" at the end where the melody peaks. Without "van," "ik hou" would mean "I hold" — the preposition is what makes it a declaration of love.
Learners drop the "van" and say "ik hou jou," which lands somewhere between "I hold you" and nonsense. The diphthong is the phonetic issue: English speakers reading "ou" often produce the "oo" of "you" or the "oh" of "soul," when Dutch wants the two-part glide of "how." And the v of "van" should be soft, close to f.